torstai 12. helmikuuta 2009

a Flame too Burning

Is there a thing called loving too much? Can you love someone too much if it still is totally unselfish? Are there situations where you should somehow control the level of that loving, control that flame of love to keep it from burning too hot?

What if the other flame isn´t burnig as hot as yours? Can your loving be too strong, so big it suffocates the other one? The other love? So big it uses all the air? So you just have to make yourself to back up to give the other one room to breath. So you just have to try not to love that much.
Is it right? Can "I love you so much" also be a bad thing? Are there situations where we should only "love pretty much". I´ve always thought there is no need to say "I love you so much", or " I love you more than anything". Because in my mind, if you love someone, you just love. And by saying you love, you mean you love the whole of it, everything there is in you, everything you can and everything you are. If that is loving, how could there be a level of love higher than that? Loving so much.. If by saying you just love, you already love all there is in you to love someone. Your everything.
So, if "I love you" means "I love you my all, my everything", how could you love less? How could a flame be cooler? I don´t know. I guess to me to love means to have the fire. And the only option is to not have the fire. To not love. And I can´t see any in betweens.
But, can a flame be too burning? I used to think mine was. I still don´t know. still don´t know.

Ei kommentteja:

Lähetä kommentti